Prostate orgasms for straight men
Updated: Oct 5, 2022
A prostate orgasm is precisely what i t sounds like, an orgasm that's accomplished through the stimulation of the prostate. It is a complex issue though which is bound up in sexuality, judgement and a part of the body men don’t necessarily associate with pleasure.
Before we talk about prostate orgasms, how do you find your prostate and what is it and what does it do? It's a gland that's part of the reproductive system in men, situated in between the anus and the base of the penis. The main function of the prostate gland is to produce the fluid found in semen. That fluid enables sperm to be transferred from the testicles through the penis, so it can fertilize eggs. Men may be hyper conscious of this gland when it triggers a medical concern. As men get older, their prostate normally enlarges. It will eventually push against the bladder and the urethra and cause a condition which is known as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH). BPH causes a frequent desire to pee, sleep can be disrupted by frequent visits to the toilet and a feeling of need to completely empty. For the most part BPH is more of an annoyance than a serious concern. Prostate cancer is a very serious concern and roughly 13% of men will contract prostate cancer throughout their lifetime, generally when they are older.
The prostate - a source of pleasure?
It makes sense that men see the prostate as a source of worry, pain and possible cancer and it’s hard for them to envisage it as a source of pleasure. But it is an organ which can produce astonishing, full-body orgasms and why would you want to miss out on intense pleasure? The prostate is situated right in the middle of the genital area and consists of a huge number of nerve endings, with numerous of those nerves linking to other sexual organs. That stimulation is in some cases called "prostate milking" since it can trigger the ejaculation of fluid right prior to orgasm. Some describe the prostate as the "male g-spot" since it's so delicate and can produce powerful orgasms, although it's more frequently referred to as the "p-spot.". The majority of men who've experienced a prostate orgasm, describe it as more powerful than a penile orgasm. It's described as a "whole-body," orgasm, starting with contractions in the genital area that moves like a wave felt throughout the body. This a stark contrast to a penile orgasm that is localized to your gentile area. There is no huge ejaculation and no refractory period, so no there is no down time. Men who have experienced prostate orgasms, describe multiple orgasms that are otherwise impossible.
Before you start massaging the prostate you want to know where to locate it. The prostate glad is very sensitive and can even be stimulated externally through the perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus, sometimes called the taints) But to have an amazing prostate orgasm normally you need anal penetration. How do you find the prostate? Firstly, the man should be aroused, which will of course cause an erection but also will increase the blood flow to the prostate. This will cause it to swell and then it will then be easier to locate.
Finding the Prostate Externally
When you're feeling aroused, press deeply in the location in between the testicles and the anus, and feel around for a lump which is about the size of a walnut, but it does feel softer. If you can't locate it externally, you can stimulate the prostate by applying pressure on the perineum. This is not however a guaranteed orgasm. Before Locating the prostate internally, you will need some lube and a lot of it as the anus does not produce any kind of lubrication of its own. The anal tissue is very fragile and can easily tear, so you need to be very gentle. Lube is key to anal play and there are brands designed specially for anal lubrication.
How to find your Prostate Internally
You must first completely empty your bowels and then clean the area. Some men like to douche or perhaps carry out an enema prior to anal play, but make sure you know what you are doing. You will need to explore and experiment with what works, speed, touch and your range of motion. You are doing it right if you begin to feel like you need to urinate. Keep going. Do not stress, your body will not let you urinate while you're sexually excited. The release of a somewhat-watery substance from your penis will inform you you're getting close, and you might be among the lucky ones who can have a complete prostate orgasm from external stimulation. If not then it is time to go inside and stimulate internally. We'll presume that you've currently discovered your p-spot, so let's load up with lube and enjoy slowly and carefully. The orgasm that might be much better than anything you've ever felt. If you can't reach climax by utilizing your fingers, or you wish to take things to the next level, an anal toy will help and probably enhance the experience. Anal toys are smaller in size than the ones utilized for genital stimulation so they can fit more conveniently into the anus. The next ultimate level is when your female partner uses a strap-on dildo for anal play and the ultimate enjoyment and pleasure.
When anal penetration is included, don’t forget about STIs, be careful, smart and very clean. If you're playing with a partner and using adult toys during your anal play, make sure you keep everything clean and never ever go from anal to vaginal play without totally cleaning the toy or penis. So lastly another reason to love anal play are the health advantages to prostate massage. It can clear the prostatic duct of excess fluids, which can be a cause of a medical problems like prostatitis (swelling of the prostate) that makes urination uncomfortable. There is also some evidence that prostate massage can be a helpful preventative treatment for prostate cancer. The key is to not put a lot of pressure on yourself. The entire point of attempting brand-new things in your sex life is to take full advantage of enjoyment and have a good time and experience maximum pleasure. Prostate orgasming is mind-blowing, but if you do not climax, think of it as more time to play and explore rather than a failure! We also know that there are psychological issues for many men who feel if they enjoy anal play then there must be questions about their sexuality. This can be very distressing for many and is not to be ignored, but remember anal play is a form of sex which is about pleasure and how you achieve that not your sexuality. If you enjoy it, go with it. The shame needs to be removed.